Stop Blaming Yourself, It’s Not Your Fault

There’s no use.

Stop blaming yourself for everything. Stop carrying on the abuse. It is what it is. Just let it be.

Don’t give up on yourself. Just give up on the cycle.

If you want a solution, if you want freedom, if you want peace, you have to give up the fight.

It’s just not working for any of us. It’s time to try something new.

It’s no one’s fault. There isn’t a single cause. Behind a flower is the sun, the rain, the seed and the earth. Just like a flower, your problems are also made up of many elements. Pointing the finger at yourself or anyone else is inaccurate. There are too many factors involved to blame just one.

It’s just a distraction from the problem itself. We’re hurt, we’re sad, we’re afraid and rather than facing the emotions, we would rather shift the blame.

It takes our minds off of the issues at hand. Emotions are hard to face, but that’s ok.

You can do better. You can be better. Just put down the gloves. They’re only blinding you from what’s here. And you need to see what’s truly here if you want change.

Blame isn’t a resolution. Guilt is useless.

I know you think that being hard on yourself is going to whip you into shape. But it’s only reinforcing the problem.

You’re going to battle against your own heart. You’re carrying on the hurt.

But you’re close to freedom. All it takes is a space in the clouds for the light to shine through.

Give yourself that space. Allow your light to shine through. Everything isn’t your fault. Everything isn’t your problem. Life is simple and beautiful when you let go of the complications.

Step back and remove yourself from the center. Everything is going to be all right.

Close your eyes, breathe in, breathe out and let go. Dedicate love to yourself. You need it more than anyone else.

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