I could have sworn it was real. I wish it was.
Everything was blue in color. I checked my phone and the New York Times had announced that Hillary Clinton won the election.
I wasn’t enthused, but I was relieved.
Then I woke up. Nothing was blue. It was pitch black.
Usually, when the dogs hear me get up, they cry to go outside.
They didn’t cry on Wednesday. Everything was silent. I knew what had happened.
Donald Trump is like a sugar pill. It seems and feels like something’s happening, but really there’s nothing there. It’s a sham.
Except a lot of us aren’t aware of it. It somehow feels like a cure.
But it won’t last. And the people who really need the help are the ones that are going to suffer the most.
It’s a shame because no one really deserves to suffer. Navigating life is hard enough.
But what can we do? That’s the question we must ask ourselves for the next 4 years. What can we do?
By we, I mean you and me and everyone. Rather than depend on some establishment to fix our lives, what can we do to begin to repair ourselves and each other?
Trump isn’t going to do it. Hillary wouldn’t have been able to do it either.
Good presidents put band-aids on bullet holes. Bad presidents pick at scabs before the skin gets a chance to heal.
It’s a lose-lose situation when we look for something outside of ourselves to heal our pain.
We’re all walking around with broken hearts. Our cars are nice, our homes are beautiful, but our hearts are shattered.
We’re angry and sad and everyone else is the problem. The “others” are the issue.
But I’m not so sure that that’s true. Yes, Trump is bound to screw some things up and ignorantly inspire more ignorance, but we don’t have to succumb to it.
He’s a disconnected old fart, we shouldn’t expect much. This is more disappointing than surprising.
So can we use this as an opportunity to face reality head on, rather than run, hide, complain and ignore?
Can we use this as inspiration to stand strong and stand together with open minds and loving wisdom?
It’s okay to be pissed off or upset for a while, the world is a little jacked up right now. But it’s not a bad place. Don’t let this dissuade you from being you.
Once the sugar high wears off, we can’t just go back to our regularly scheduled program.
We have to continue to smile at our neighbors. We have to continue to comfort our friends. We have to continue to act with kind intentions.
Because I’d really love to see the love grow.
The sun always shines again. No cloud lasts forever.
Be sweet and pass it on. Maybe then we’ll bridge the gap and realize that nothing was between us in the first place.
It was all an illusion.